And yet here I am, actively giving advice on my show Success Freaks and one-on-one through Wizperts.com. Isn’t this a paradox? Maybe it doesn’t make sense to the world around us but it’s the truth. And that is what you need to hear right now. You know deep inside that there are no magic answers, that no one else can feel your pain like you do, and that no matter how great the advice is you will wake up tomorrow and still feel like your world is collapsing. I can’t help you with that…
However, I am listening. I am sitting here letting you know you are not alone in this world. I am here to remind you that tomorrow is a new day, that you have hope that it’s a better day than today, and above all else that you matter enough that I will take your call. To me that is the bottom line. You need someone to remind you that you do matter. I can do that.
At the darkest moment of my life I was so stressed from my work and my marriage I emotionally lost all control. I felt my grasp on stability slipping away and there was nothing I could do to stop it. I ended up freaking out, screaming, losing it all, and ended up under a table reeling from the explosion in my soul. At that moment I needed someone to tell me it was ok. I reached out to coworkers and they advised I seek help. I needed to hear that it would be ok, so I reached out to my friends and got left in the dark. I needed to hear it would be ok and went to the hospital. No one ever told me it would be ok.
I learned the hard way that it…would…be…ok.
Now I have been married to my first and only wife for 12 years, have had a successful career as a Paramedic, have had two successful radio shows over 6 years, and own my own company that specializes in motivational speaking, coaching, and “Helping Others Be Awesome.” I am here to share my climb up from underneath the collapse of the world as I knew it, the experience and wisdom I gained during that struggle, and through transparency bring you hope and comfort. You will see my mistakes, my scars, my joy, and my victory. I am here to tell you:.
It will be ok.